Saint Augustine (theologian and philosopher) lived during violent and corrupt times (354-430 AD) and he knew that the only way through such times was for people to have HOPE so they could see the bright even on the dark, dismal days. He has been attributed as saying, “Hope has two daughters. Their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are.” I love this quote because the sentiment is still appropriate during current times.
These days, I see many of my friends struggling with their anger over their perception of how things are going in their small corner of the world while others are hopeful and exhibiting courage in their attempts to bring about some sort of change. This week, let’s take a closer look at anger, courage, and hope.
Hope’s daughter Anger shows herself when she is annoyed or displeased and is often reactionary when she feels things are unjust, inequitable, corrupt, or oppressive. Often we see the dark side of daughter Anger. It is evident when people complain about the unjust, inequitable, corrupt, or oppressive things but do not seek or work on solutions for the source of the complaint. She is around when we denigrate others in an effort to promote ourselves or just to ruin a reputation. She is around when we turn to violence to express our feelings.
On the other hand, it is Anger’s sister, Courage who takes action to deal with Anger’s issues. Courage seeks solutions. She has the strength to persevere in the wake of adversity with confidence and resolution. When the two join forces they form a powerful team. Anger identifies the issues that bother us and when she joins forces with her action-oriented sister Courage, things happen to work on changing the issues. Anger without the action of courage diminishes hope. Anger without the action of courage diminishes our energy and warps our perspective. Anger without the action of courage is a weapon.
Let me be clear. It is okay to be angry. It is fine to vent about that which we are angry. But it is important to use that anger to help bring about positive and productive action. We need to always pair our anger at something with courage – courage to set up and do something about the source of our anger.
It is courage that helps us to:
- Transform our anger into a tool, something to use to help work on the issues bothering us and help us move forward in a constructive way.
- Move beyond reaction to response.
- Step out of our comfort zones.
- Deal with all the unknowns we may face.
- Handle the unexpected.
- Come to grips with what we do, how we think, and who we are with the issue we are facing.
- Embrace transformations of self and situation.
We all have a reserve of courage within us and some things we can do to unlock our reserve of courage include:
- Believing in ourselves.
- Acknowledging any fears, confronting them, and moving beyond them.
- Letting go of the familiar.
- Moving past worry.
- Persevering.
- Following “Mother Hope’s” example.
Mother Hope is wise beyond belief for she carries the expectation and desire for certain things to happen. She is powerful because she is accompanied by positive emotions such as joy, happiness, confidence, courage, enthusiasm, and optimism. Dr. Judith Rich, a pioneering teacher in the field of transformation and consciousness, tells us that, “Hope is a match in a dark tunnel, a moment of light, just enough to reveal the path ahead and ultimately the way out.” Hope is indeed a very powerful ally for with it we will be able to deal with anything especially the issues that cause anger to bubble over. No matter what we face along our life journey, hope lets us know that no matter what there will be something better and brighter around the corner.
On our life journey there are always going to issues that make us angry. If we can remember to use that anger to fuel our courage and use our courage to work toward constructive and positive solutions to the issues, we will be able to cope with and move beyond the issues. And, not only cope with and move beyond, but we will do so in a more positive, focused, calm, confident, and hopeful way. As Adele Bashear (Co-Founder of Intrinsic Enterprises) tells us, “Never underestimate the power of hope. Hope fuels us with the energy and courage to go forward.”