UNSTOPPABLE – incapable of being stopped – is a word used to describe James Conner. Conner writes the following in his July 25, 2016 Nothing is Guaranteed article for The Players’ Tribune, “…As a running back for the University of Pittsburgh during the 2013 and ’14 seasons (plus one game in ’15), I had scored 36 touchdowns and rushed for 2,641 yards. But, in all honesty, I was probably better known for running people over — either that or for stiff-arming would-be tacklers to the ground. Trying to bring me down was like trying to tackle a linebacker, and when I was locked in, no one was going to tackle me. No one. If I saw a defender in my way, I was lowering my shoulder, and it was not gonna be fun for the other guy. Sometimes I would just look at defenders like, Come on … you literally have no chance of tackling me. I felt like nothing or no one could stop me at that point. On the field. In my element.”
In December 2015, Conner announced that he had been diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma (a life-threatening blood cancer). His Nothing is Guaranteed article in The Players’ Tribune chronicles his thoughts and feelings from the diagnosis through the prognosis. Midway through treatments he shared, “…I’m happy to say that the lifeless feeling I experienced at the midway point in my treatments passed after a few days, and that I rallied from there — I watched a bunch of my old highlight videos, and I realized that I could be an inspiration to others, and I just … got past it. But it wasn’t easy. Nothing about this process was easy.” Today, Conner is cancer-free and plays professional football for the Pittsburgh Steelers.
Some of us may be able to relate to Conner’s story – successfully moving along our life journey only to encounter a major obstacle. The obstacle could be an illness or the sudden loss of a job or the loss of a loved one or anything that throws us for a loop and derails our journey. However, not all of us are able to get back on track and continue on our life journey with the same enthusiasm, passion, drive, and determination as Conner.
What is about him that makes him unstoppable, whether on the football field or, “…sitting in that green leather hospital chair, waiting for the nurse to mix up the chemo batch, and thinking, I do not want to be here right now.”? (Nothing is Guaranteed in The Players’ Tribune) This week, using James Conner as the inspiration, let’s explore what it takes for us to become UNSTOPPABLE.
CONFIDENCE. That belief in ourselves and our abilities. That belief that we can ‘ride the storm’ and overcome anything. That belief that even if the odds are stacked against us, we will prevail and succeed.
RESILIENCE. Failure is not an option is our motto. We bounce back despite any setbacks. And we are resilient because we have a positive outlook which influences our actions.
PERSISTENCE and DETERMINATION. We are unrelenting. We keep on going no matter what. We do not let adversity, fear, or our own self-doubts stop us.
A GOAL. Committing to reaching a goal keeps us going, keeps us focused, keeps us moving forward. Goals give us purpose and that purpose often provides the passion which fuels our unstoppable drive.
NO BAGGAGE. To be unstoppable, we must LET GO of anything that slows us down. This is especially true of emotional baggage. Let go of what ifs, resentments, blame. Tossing the baggage lightens the load and gives us energy for the journey.
KNOWLEDGE. We understand what we are dealing with or are up against. We research to become informed. We work from a foundation of information and fact.
HOPE and FAITH. Hope lets us know that no matter how bad things seem at the moment, no matter how dark, there will be something better and brighter around the corner. Faith maintains the feeling that things will work out even though we are not certain of the outcome.
STRONG SUPPORT SYSTEM. Surrounding ourselves with friends and family members who provide encouragement, strength, inspiration, and motivation propels us over rough moments. Professional resources (like the medical team that worked with James Conner) can provide the expertise needed for specialized situations.
We all have it within ourselves to be UNSTOPPABLE. We just need to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to get us where we want to go or to reach our goal. When we are unstoppable, any obstacle we encounter is viewed as something temporary. Being unstoppable means working through the rough patches and never letting them stop us from being who we want to be and where we want to go. Let’s all channel our inner ‘James Conner’ and become unstoppable the next time our life journey hits a rough patch!